Is this the First Step to Health and Happiness?

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Do you believe other people are more interesting and loveable than you are? Do you feel your opinions do not matter? Do you lack the love and attention you need? Do you feel out of control of your life, finances and relationships? Do you believe nothing will ever change?

flowerIf you answered ‘yes’ to those questions take a breath, pause, let it go and  read on, because as the aeroplane safety video says,

“Put your own oxygen mask on first. You can’t take care of others if you’re running out of air yourself.”

What is this About?

This concept of self-love is about having a good relationship with yourself and your life because it takes a strong caring and nurturing relationship with yourself to do what is necessary to improve your health, well-being and happiness.

So the first step to improving your health, well-being and happiness is to improve the relationship you have with yourself.

Sadly, many people are stuck believing that taking more care of themselves will mean others suffer, or they will be seen as selfish. Women in particular are often taught by example that they should always put other people’s needs first and may feel guilty about taking time for themselves. In many ways this is ironic because to care and help other people we really need to full of energy and enthusiasm and for that to happen we need to take care of ourselves first.

Why is this Important?

Dare To Love Yourself
“Dare to love yourself as if you were a rainbow with gold at both ends” – Aberjani

Improving your relationship with yourself is vital to taking the next step and seeking help or making changes to your life. Believing that you do matter, that you are loveable, important and in control will help to you to embark and sustain  your healing journey.

This is important not just for you, but for those you love, because you will be able to help them so much by being healthy and happy.

How do I Improve?

Make a conscious decision to change and you may be surprised how you gently and slowly you begin to be kinder, more loving, more permissive and more responsible to yourself.

Take the first step and print this worksheet: Improving My Relationship with Myself. Working through it and creating some personal positive affirmations to help you become your own best friend is great way to start.

 

Resources

Improving My Relationship with Myself.

David R Hamiliton’s top 10 Affirmations.

Sky Blue River

 

 

 

 

 

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